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Tuesday, June 30, 2009

1 week later...

It has now been a week since we brought Nathan home from the hospital and what a wonderful week it has been. While I am still recovering from surgery my mom and younger sister Alli have been here to help Curtis take care of Nathan. It is quite frustrating to not be able to take care of him by myself, I am still unable to stand up while holding him, or pick him up out of bed, or even bend over him long enough to change his diaper. I never thought that I would want to change a diaper, but right now I would give anything to be able to. I felt pretty helpless one afternoon when everyone was asleep and I was the first to hear Nathan cry, I went into his room and couldn't bend down low enough to pick him up from his crib without causing myself all kinds of pain. It was one of the worst feelings of my life, not being able to console my son as he lay there crying. I had to wake up Curtis so he could help. I am looking forward to being fully recovered, not to escape the pain, but so that I can change my own son's diaper. Thinks ARE getting better though, when I first came home from the hospital I could barely walk, so I am very grateful for the improvement since then. Crissy keeps reminding me to accept the help from others while I can get it, I will be able to change plenty of diapers soon enough.

Curtis is awfully cute with Nathan. He is very excited to be a father and takes every chance he can to hold his son. Anyone who sees him can tell just how happy he is to be a father. Here are a few pictures of Curtis with Nathan.


Naptime after church

My 2 handsome boys :)





Isn't Nathan so cute just cuddled up on Curtis?!? I love it!...mmmmm Whoppers


Nathan has proven time and time again that all of his bodily functions are working splendidly. We have come to believe that he shows his affection by peeing on you. (At least that is what we have to tell ourselves when we find we have a wet lap...again). I got the full blast at his doctors appointment on Monday. When the nurse asked me to take off his diaper so that they could weigh him, I knew that it couldn't end well...with a nice large wet spot on my shirt I quickly put a new diaper on him and handed him to Curtis, just in time for him to leak through his diaper onto Curtis' hands. Poor Alli has had to change pants a number of times as well. It seems as though my mom managed to make it through her entire visit unscathed, (but don't worry mom, I'm sure he still loves you). My good friend Arlena flew in today to help out as well. Nathan must have decided that he liked her quickly because a mere 27 minutes after she got here, she too had to change her clothes...what can I say? He's a healthy boy!


Arlena claims that this was Nathan's doing...but the positioning of the wet spot is awfully suspicious...


Aside from the water works, Nathan's doctor's appointment went well. He is already starting to gain a little bit of weight! He is now 6 lbs 13 oz, as opposed to his birth weight of 6 lb 12.5 oz. I was very relieved to hear this because I had no idea whether or not he was eating enough at each feeding, he has the bad habit of falling asleep in the middle of meal time. But thanks to grandma's willingness to tickle his feet (and even flick them occasionally...much to her dismay) it seems as though we were able to keep him awake long enough to get enough to eat. Nathan also had to endure another prick in the foot for his second round of newborn screening. I made sure to have Curtis hold him during this so that once he felt the prick and looked up he would think that his daddy was causing him this pain, not his mommy :) But Nathan handled it like a champ...either that or he passed out, I'm not sure. He cried for a split second and then fell asleep while they squeezed what seemed like a gallon of blood out of his poor little foot! After the blood test I felt it appropriate to go out to eat to reward Nathan's mommy for being so brave!

I already feel as though he is growing up too fast! I can't believe he is 9 days old! Before I know it he will be getting his drivers lisence. I have resorted to taking lots of pictures every day just to make sure that I don't forget one moment of his life. He is still as cute as can be and getting cuter every day. (Both his Aunt Alli and grandma will attest to that fact). Here are a few more pictures just in case you don't believe me!

Just chillin' with Arlena







I love his little frog legs!
I still can't believe that Curtis and I are parents. We have been blessed with the most adorable son in the world! I can't thank my friends and family enough for all the support that they have given us. This kid is so lucky to have such a great extended family, I can't wait for you all to meet him!

3 comments:

  1. I love him! So cute. I'm so sorry about your tough recovery...I can't even imagine what the would be like. Hopefully in the near future we'll both be up and capable of taking care of our own children! That's so fun that Arlena is there with you...tell her hi for me. And tell her she really should learn to use a toilet. :)

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  2. He's soooooo cuuuuuuuuute! I know those sound like casual words, but imagine me saying them FULL of meaning! I can't wait for you guys to come!

    Hi Alli! You are doing great over there! You are totally the SUPER AUNT. We miss you! :)

    Hi Arlena! How ya doin'? I'm so jealous that you get to be there! :) But thanks for taking care of them. Next time, I'm sure Kare and Curtis wouldn't mind if you used their potty!

    Curtis, you are such a cute Daddy. You TOTALLY look the part! :)

    Kare, wow, I'm so sorry you are having such a hard time recovering. If I could, I would be there in a flash to help out. Helplessness is SUCH a frustrating feeling. I hope the medical personnel will get back to you soon! Hang in there, my dear, this too will pass. You're a strong and positive person and I know you'll get through this hard time. I love you! And yes, you have one super-cute offspring! I want to hold him. NOW, please...

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  3. Kare, I am so sorry it has been such a tough recovery. I can't imagine healing from abdominal surgery while trying to care for a newborn. I am just glad you have such great family and friends to take care of you. Tell Geri that it would be reasonable for her to start wearing depends at her age.. she is pretty old after all. Love you guys. Give Nathan a big squeeze for me.

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